Family is having dinner , December winter days....Dinner special is Raagi Ball and avarekaayi curry.Family of four , Dad, Mom , Boy and Girl kids.Girl seated beside and looking at the Ragi ball in Dad's plate.She was not given raagi ball as she dint know to swallow it properly and this affected her health very badly.The small girl still eyeing on dad's plate ...Father's habit was to make small balls out of the that and roll it in curry and keep it aside.When the father was busy watching in TV , the girl took up a Raagi ball and gulped it off , 1 , 2, 3, 4.....Four balls inside the mouth and not able to swallow and cant chew also.Dad looking back into his plate doesn't find one also and looks at his wife , now both look at the girl trying hard to swallow the Raagi ball...HAHAHHAHAHHA!!!! Family burst out into loud laughter......Immediately she was made to spit out the balls and eat the rice.Second PUC 1st year Chemistry Class would start after the lunch , the girl and her friend has some misunderstanding , now the girl is trying to convince her friend.The friend is adamant.She goes to the blackboard and writes up a song for her friend just to tease her and make her laugh." Eh Shivani , tu lagthi hai naani "is the original song, the girl writes it as Eh Triveni as her friends name is Triveni.. The whole class burst out laughing and the girl goes out to wash her hands (Clean the Chalk Dust)....Triveni goes to Black Board and writes it as Parvathi ..(Chemistry HOD's name whose class was next after lunch break) Ooops....By the time the girl entered the class HOD was already in the class and screwing the one who had written the poem , not knowing the same girl who had entered the class just then had written the song on the Black Board...The whole class was silent and nobody revealed it was this girl who had written it....F*&K ...Lucky me the girl thought and kept quite...Third The brother and sister had a good bonding , the brother who was elder always used to share about his friends to his sister from small age.. Now the girl was in College and the brother in some training..and the girl wanted to know if the bro had a GF would he reveal the same....She spoke about this to her close friend and both decided to Pry on the brother. Her friend called from her home to the brother's office and started speaking as Nayana..!st day over, the girl awaited bro will come and tell her ...Nopes he dint speak about it..Second day over still No Chance..Third day she made her friend call her home and bro picked up ...Her bro cut the call ...The girl was moping the floor and couldnt stop smiling ....Zyyyyyyyyiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn she went under Sofa laughing to control her laugh.....Bro came to know something is wrong ..Nayana Hmmm... APS College.... Hmmm wants to date with me..Hmmm Come out ya and tell me who is this...The girl just argued she dint know at alll.....Dinner time Bro took out this topic in front ofparents and parents were laughing , the girl finished her dinner and ran to her room ASAP.Fourth:

This happened at work place night shifts.. Pulling each others leg was daily routine.. Even the manager was also not spared though all had a special respect towards the manager.. The girl started a mail teasing two girls in her team...CCing everyone in the team.Chain mail started everyone replying as per the conversation going on ..Enjoying the conversations...While the conversation was on thru mails , manager went suddenly to one of the guys desk to check the QC report for the month.Sudden POP up of these mails led to his curiosity and he opened the mails and started reading all the mails...He went to his desk back drafted a mail saying "meri amma "ab bas bhi karegiii....Immediately chain mail stopped and everyone serious back to work...The girl came to zManager['s desk Grinning ..Sat beside the space by the desktop @ manager's workstation...

Manager " Arey tum logon ko seriousness hi nahi hai"?I have given you a team, tumhe tho kuch farak hi nahi padthi hai...Hmm aur batao kiske naam lekar un donon ko chida rahe the...
The last sentence was enough for her..

"-----", Friday mood mein hai yaar..masto tho rahegi..Ab se phir nahi hoga kasam se sorry yaar mein chali...

Abe rukh ja tu ...ab bolke hi jaaa u r culprit in my team..sabko Bhigadegi tu...

This type of nok jhok happened till 3 :00Am until the girl got her call from CAB,...

FIFTH...

This is the funniest part.. Weekend ..OWL group as usual awake..messaging one another..
The girl had done with her 100 free messages for the day, so slowly took her bro's mobile and started messaging her friends...She messaged one of her close friends PINGOO..Pingoo dint know whose this number was..So she started with Who are you..This idea stuck the girl to play up with her a while..

Time 12:30 Am
Pingoo: Who are you?
Girl:Sweetheart it's me your childhood friend

Pingoo:Which Childhood friend, you should have a name right?Tell me your name.
Girl:Sachin ..

Pingoo:I dint have any friend by that name.
Guirl :You forgot me, Cheee my life is a big waste now. I just came back for you only.Just for you dear..

Pingoo is so confused she messages all her friends asking if they knew who it was ..sending the number.

The girl already had sent all her friends not to reveal its her ..so totally confused and scared pingoo was.......This went on..She stopped messaging after saying Stupid..again the girl messaged her "dont u rememeber at all honey" Sadd....

So Pingoo started the conversation again as who it was

The girl said , we were childhood friendss studied in Christ school we both ate in same .We were neighbours.. ....

Pingoo started pleading..... Everyone in the team knew this girl was playing prank but nobody revelaed it.

Again this girl started off telling , I am outside your door , come out and see.Am sitting on my bike waiting for you .If you dont come I will come and ring the bell.

Man this took of pingoo's life she was so scared who the mad is at 4:00Am early some one at my door.Finally this girl messaged sweetheart its me ....Had a nice time fooling sleep well Good night...Pingoo started cursing her and just if they right then face to face she would have killed her..

He He many more such pranks to add on....Like parking lot incidence on mail some great to remember some not so good....Not to lose on the part who is the Prankster her..It's the great great great Me...

Nevermeant to hurt but just for fun....

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To write about this was from the days I was in hospital , when I saw a couple helping each other.Very old couple who were sick, the old lady was on wheel chair and the uncle was pushing the wheel chair. I was there with my granny , who had come to take care of me for some tests.

Old ladies blood test was over and that Uncle her husband was taking for collecting urinary sample, he was pushing it himself .Grandma offered help saying she will take the lady in, but Uncle said its alright.

There were no kids with them , talking to them came to know , they have 5 kids and all of them settled abroad and two of them in Delhi.Out of 5 none of them is ready to keep the parents near them. My mind went floating off with thoughts , after a certain point of time in life , its no one else will be there with you, ur husband or wife tats it .no kids , no brothers and sisters no relatives..

But in many of our lives we wouldnt respect that partner and we go off behind somebody else...with these thoughts remembered a song which I had heard long back , where the guy asks his girl a few questions.......

In most of the love relationships , we see now guys want a time pass when their first love is away somewhere..for this short duration time pass relationships guys give a name as love.. its not Guys even girls also..

In a way girls are smarter when they know guy is falling for them they let them encourage them , I dont blame all girls few of them cant say NO to the guy who is in love with them , and they suffer inside..but few girls encourage guys to fall though already in relationships and finally give a reason as my parents dint agree , In these kind of relationships the second guy would be ready to anything to the girl on a competition , he would be loyal , he wouldnt look at any other girl to impress the girl he loves...she would have been his life...his heart beat, but the girls use up this sentiment and get their work done...the guy would have so much fooled that he would have spent his entire earnings in amusing the girl and girl wouldnt have much left to withdraw from him...she would be very sweet with few tears and saying parents are totally against , I just wanna live my lifetime with you but parents are barriers...

In relationships where girls think from heart always get hurt , first guy would be behind and the second guy would be black mailing saying I cant live without pls dont leave me stuff. The girl continues even after her marriage also he would use her until his marriage as his support and finally blame her that she is not letting him live his life..

Is relationships become such cheap that we seek our comfort and not others happiness...I know lots of people seek relationship as WIFE or HUSBAND is necessary for me when I need something and fulfill my needs....relationships is not only finance, sex , family increment but its an unbreakable bond which has to live for years together.

Some of the marriage break due to ego problems, nobody wants to compromise.. Marriage is not carrying ego or to show I am great..They are just the wheels of the chariot without one another "Chariot of marriage " is not carried further.Why cant we adjust with our partner, its not only for girls even for guys both should leave their ego and go further...some marriages break just cos husband was snoring or smelling bad....

In some cases people get married to the person who is working abroad so that they get a VISA easily to land abroad..its kind of deal..is relationships become so cheap...

Real Meaning of marriage is not understood during early years of marriage cos we dont live life for us , we live life for our future and our children, We start living life after 30 years of marriage where children are also settling up and then we look for our partner who was with us all this while.A person who had never respected his wife thru out his life starts caring for her at this age, A middle aged lady who looks for her children support during her 40's realises ,children need their friends rather than parents anymore...... some unlucky people would have lost their spouses before even living this life..In kannada there is a saying Nee nanage Naa ninage..this is when life starts ...so why live life after so many years ..live each moment of ur life for ur spouse ..respect ur spouse dont dominate,
..keep aside ur egos say sorry be it whosoever mistake
..finance and sex is not the important thing in life
..forgive each other;s mistake each others lies
..if u feel u cant give happiness to the other try being the way they like , and the second one please accept ur loved one as they are or atleast notice the effort they are making.by having a breakup or divorce u wont get peace but u will just add ur numbers to the list of ur spouses.
If you feel in ur love life , u cant give happiness , there is nothing as good relationship after a break up, so break it up completely so that the other one wouldnt come back to u to say sorry and hurting each other and having an unhealthy relationship....just break it completely its good u become villany rather than staying good and spoiling everyones life around u....

I dont what sense it makes to all but my understanding abt relationship is crystal clear....